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Monday, August 6, 2012

Best Friendship Quotes


A friend drops their plans when you're in trouble, shares joy in your accomplishments, feels sad when you're in pain. A friend encourages your dreams and offers advice--but when you don't follow it, they still respect and love you. (Doris Wild Helmering)

A friend is someone who, upon seeing another friend in immense pain, would rather be the one experiencing the pain than to have to watch their friend suffer. (Anonymous)

A friend is very different from an acquaintance. The former is tried and true; the latter only a casual shadow in one's life. (Anonymous)

A man cannot be too careful in his choice of enemies. (Oscar Wilde)

A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your successes. (Doug Larson)

Advice from your friends in like the weather, some of it is good, some of it is bad. (Anonymous)

Best friends are like diamonds, precious and rare. False friends are like leaves, found everywhere. (Anonymous)

But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life; and thanks to a benevolent arrangement of things, the greater part of life is sunshine. (Thomas Jefferson)

Celebrate the happiness that friends are always giving, make every day a holiday and celebrate just living! (Amanda Bradley)

Consult your friend on all things, especially on those which respect yourself. (Anonymous)

Count your joys instead of your woes; Count your friends instead of your foes. (Irish Proverb)

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. (Kahil Gibran)

Friendship is love with wings. (Anonymous)

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing. (Elie Wiesel)

Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity, as the water that flows from the spring cannot congeal in winter. (James Fenimore Cooper)

Friendships are fragile things, and require as much handling as any other fragile and precious thing. (Randolph S. Bourne)

Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy must have somebody to divide it with. (Mark Twain)

Hold a true friend with both your hands. (Nigerian Proverb)

I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends. (Walt Whitman)

If we listened to our intellect, we'd never have a love affair.
We'd never have a friendship.
We'd never go into business, because we'd be cynical.
Well, that's nonsense.
You've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on t (Ray Bradbury)


Life without a friend is like death without a witness. (Spanish Proverb)

Make new friends, but keep old friends.
One is silver, the other is gold.
All of them are just like jewels.
Age will mellow and refine them. (Anonymous)


My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me. (Henry Ford)

Never injure a friend, even in jest. (Cicero)

Never speak ill of yourself; your friends will always say enough on that subject. (Anonymous)

Promise me you'll never forget me because if I thought you would I'd never leave. (Winnie the Pooh)

Shared joy is double joy. Shared sorrow is half sorrow. (Swedish Proverb)

The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this? (Henry David Thoreau)

The only service a friend can really render is to keep up your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself. (George Bernard Shaw)

The only way to have a friend is to be one. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

There is an important difference between love and friendship. While the former delights in extremes and opposites, the latter demands equality. (Francoise D'Aubegne Maintenon)

True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost. (C. C. Colton)

True friendship is never serene. (Marquise de Sevigne)

True happiness ... arises, in the first place, from the enjoyment of one's self, and, in the next, from friendship and conversation of a few selection companions. (Joseph Addison)

We are each of us angels with only one wing. And we can only fly while embracing each other. (Lucian de Croszonza)

We are each of us in this world an angel with only one wing. In order to fly we must embrace each other. (Cassandra Reed)

We really don't have enemies. It's just that some of our best friends are trying to kill us. (Anonymous)

What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies. (Aristotle)

When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it. (Edgar Watson Howe)

When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance. (Anatole Broyard)

With clothes the new are best, with friends the old are best. (Anonymous)

Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other good. (Artistotle)

Yesterday brought the beginning, tomorrow brings the end but somewhere in the middle we've become the best of friends. (Anonymous)

... no man is useless... while he has a friend. (Robert Louis Stevenson)

I value the friend who for me finds time on his calendar, but I cherish the friend who for me does not consult his calendar. (Robert Brault)

An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind. (Buddha)

Sunday, August 5, 2012

True Friendship

Have you ever wondered what the real essence of the saying "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed" is? People talk about the true value of friendship actually without knowing what it stands for. True friendship is the one, in which the individuals do not have to maintain formalities with each other. Sharing true friendship is the situation, when the person you are talking about is counted as one among your family members, when the relation you share with him/her reaches a stage that even if you don't correspond for sometime, your friendship remains unscathed. Best friends need not meet up often to make sure that the friendship remains constant.

The trust between best friends is such that if one friend falls in trouble, the other will not think twice to help. If the bond between two friends is strong, true friends can endure even long distances. For them, geographical separation is just a part of life. It would not affect their friendship. They make it a point to stay in touch, even in the verge of being exhausted due to the drudgery of everyday life. True friendship never fades away. In fact, it grows better with time. True friendship thrives on trust, inspiration and comfort. Best friends come to know, when the other person is in trouble, merely by listening to their "Hello" over the phone. They can even understand each other's silence. 

True friends don't desert each other when one is facing trouble. They would face it together and support each other, even if it is against the interests of the other person. Best friends don't analyze each other; they don't have to do so. They accept each other with their positive and negative qualities. Nothing is hidden between true friends. They know each other's strengths as well as weaknesses. One would not overpower the other. They would respect each other's individuality. In fact, they would understand the similarities and respect the differences. Best friends don't stand any outsider commenting or criticizing their friendship and they can put up a very firm resistance, if anyone does so. 

True friends are not opportunists. They don't help, because they have something to gain out of it. True friendship is marked by selflessness. Best friends support even each other, even if the whole world opposes them. It is not easy getting true friends for the lifetime. If you have even one true friend, consider yourself blessed. Remember, all best friends are friends, but not all friends can be best friends. In this world of cynics and back stabbers, there are still some people who are worth being friends with. They have to be recognized and respected for being best friends, for the lifetime.

Old Friendship

It is easy to find friends, but very difficult to maintain their friendship for a long time. Some people are blessed to have friends, who stick to each other through the thick and thin of their lives and never ever break the relation, even with geographical distance or time. Others take time to open up with people, while there are many others, who do not feel confident about themselves to have friends for their lifetime. Long lasting friendship does not happen in a day. It takes years to develop understanding and higher levels of trust, if you want to boast of having old friends. It needs equal efforts from both sides to make the relation work.

Some childhood friendships actually develop into long lasting friendship, since it is a result of mutual understanding and undeterred trust. People swear by the power of old friendship. The fact that there is always a trusted friend to fall back upon in times of need is very re-assuring. In fact, very few are blessed with long lasting friendships. Friends who have been with each other through the highs and lows; those who have seen each other fail and rise again, would definitely be true to each other. Those pals who have seen each other laugh and cry and yet stood by each other, accepting the good and the bad points, are true friends and they can maintain long lasting friendship.

The bond between the old friends is formed is so strong that even long distance cannot deter it. One can find a sparkle in the eyes of the people, when they tell about having old friends and boast of the longevity of their friendship. Childhood friendship is usually formed, when young kids get to know their immediate classmates and neighbors. Although they fight and cry at first, just like normal kids, with time, they get to develop a good level of understanding. The secret to long lasting friendships is not giving up on each other. It is inevitable that they grow up, form their opinions, have different temperaments and attitudes and possibly have different lifestyles. Yet, they hold onto each other and respect each other's opinions and attitudes. 

Finding a true friend, who stays around forever, is something that life offers to very few. Often, life is compared to a train journey - you come across many people, enjoy the moment to the fullest and bid good bye to them. Similarly, you might come across many friends in your life, but it would be hard to find that person, who emerges as your true friend. Yet, some people are saluted for their great friendships that they have developed in their lifetime. It is astonishing to find them maintaining their friendship right from their school time until their old age. When asked how, with a spark in their eyes, they would boast of the level of understanding and trust that they have developed, over the years. Perhaps this is the reason why many friendships are old, but as pure as gold.

Friendship Day SMS

Friends all over the world celebrate their most cherished relation on the occasion of friendship day. In many countries, this day is also declared a public holiday so people on this occasion go out and celebrate with their friends. As this day is the commemoration of the friendship, one of the most celebrated relations on the earth, it makes a perfect day for reciprocation and love for your dear friend. You can reciprocate this love in various ways like sending flowers, gifts and greetings. However, the most popular way of greeting friends on this occasion is by sending a text message or by sending a SMS. We have given here some popular friendship day SMS, you can chose your favorite one for your favorite friend.

Popular Friendship Day Messages

A single candle can illuminate an entire room. A true friend lights up an entire lifetime. Thanks for the bright lights of ur friendship. 

A friend is sweet when it is new. And it is sweeter when it is true. But you know what? It is sweetest when it is u. 

A coin is easy to earn, a friend is hard to find. The coin depreciates but a friend appreciates. I lost a coin when I smsed u, but it's okay because I got u. 

When ur down, I'll be there to cheer u up. When ur tired, I'll be there to lift u up. I'll be ur friend no matter what! 

Friends are like mango... you'll never know which is sweet and which is not. Well I'm lucky coz I was able to find the sweetest mango in U! 

Time & distance are important between friends. When a friend is in ur heart, they remain there forever. I may be busy, but I assure u, u are always in my heart! 

50 years from now, I'd be so old I might forget u. I might not remember ever knowing u, or might forget I once cared for u. I might.. but I won't. 

Do u ever recall the first day we met? R first hello? The day we became friends? Well, I do and I will always remember. For that very day, I knew I'd cherish u. 

Some friends are remembered because of their smile. Some friends are remembered because of their style. But u are remembered because u r so nice to remember. Take care. 

I won't promise to be ur friend forever, coz I won't live that long. But let me be ur friend as long as I live. 

I admit I'll never be the perfect friend. I'll never be there always. I may not make u smile at times but there is one thing I admit I could do. To be the person I could be for u. 

Thank you for touching my life in ways u may never know. My riches do not lie in material wealth but in having friends like u - a precious gift from God! 

I always thought loving someone is the greatest feeling, but I realized that loving a friend is even better. We lose people we love, but v never lose true friends. 

If one day u feel like crying, call me. I can't promise to make u laugh, but I'm willing to cry with u. 

1 tree can start a forest, one smile can start a friendship. 1 touch can show u care, one friend can make life worth living 4. 

True friends are like Diamonds... they are real & rare. False friends r like leaves... they r scattered everywhere. 

A good friend is like a computer; me 'enter' ur life, 'save' u in my heart, 'format' ur problems, 'shift' u 2 opportunities & never 'delete' u from my memory! 

I believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends. I'm surrounded by angels but I call them my best friends. 

We gain & lose things every day. But trust me on 1 thing: U WILL NEVER LOSE ME! I will always b there as a friend! 

A friend is never a coincidence in ur life, they r meant to enter ur life to bring u joy & laughter. So, i will treasure the friendship between us. 

Friends r like stars. u can't always see them, But u know they are always there 4 you... 

Never abandon old friends. They r hard 2 replace. Friendships is like wine: it gets BETTER as it grows OLDER. Just like us... i get BETTER, u get OLDER. 

Handsome, Sweet, Intelligent, Spontaneous, Good Looking, Nice Friends, Charming, Funny, well... Enough about ME! How about u?

Friendship Day Messages


Friendship Day is an auspicious occasion, which commemorates the divine bond of friends. The most special way to wish your friend instantly is by a quick Friendship Day message. Though the messages are simple, yet the essence of friendship in them is intact. Even simple words can convey very special meanings with utmost ease. In the Friendship's Day messages, you will find that though there are no poems or dandy phrases, the simplicity of words is enough to let your friend know how special is this day and what importance does he/she have in your life. So go through Friendship Day message ideas given in the following lines.

Messages For Friendship's Day
  • Knowing a friend like you has made me happy in a million ways. And if ever I have to let you go, I would find a million reasons to make you stay!
  • Happy Friendship Day to You. May our friendship last till the existence of the Earth.
  • May our friendship grow and create a milestone in the history of friendship. Cheers!
  • Stars have 5 ends, squares have 4 ends, triangles have 3 ends, lines have 2 ends, life has1 end, but I hope our friendship has no end.
  • True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost. A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
  • Thank you for touching my life in ways you may never know. My riches do not lie in material wealth but in having friends like you - a precious gift from God!
  • True friends will not have any reason for their friendship. So it can never be broken when they don't find that reason.
  • You have always been like a fragrant flower that has always filled my life with your sweet presence. Even though we are now apart our friendship stays forever at heart.
  • Blessings come in many ways but the best come as friends. Thanks for blessing me!
  • A good friend is like a computer. I 'enter' in your life, 'save' you in my heart, 'format' your problems, 'shift' you to opportunities & never 'delete' you from my memory!
  • Friendship is a golden knot in which two angles lie together and if you do not break it, I will be your friend forever.
  • Time & distance are important between friends. When a friend is in your heart, he/she would remain there forever. We may be get busy, but I assure you, you will always remain in my heart!
  • Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say... Best friends listen to what you don't say.
  • Friendship is never an accident... it is something one has to nurture over the years. I hope every year our friendship becomes stronger.

When Is Friendship Day?


Friends are the greatest possession of life. A true friend is like a guiding light like who becomes the motivational force behind your success in life. So, in order to commemorate this wonderful relationship, we celebrate ‘friendship day'. Quite often people miss out on this wonderful day just because they don't know the exact date. Since there is no fixed date of Friendship Day, people tend to keep wondering as when is the ‘Friendship Day' in this year? If you have been confused about the correct Friendship Day date, the information provided below shall be helpful to you. Read further to know about Friendship's Day in 2012.

Friendship Day is all about showing your dearest friends how much they mean to you. This special day falls on the first Sunday of August every year. In 2012, Friendship Day falls on August 5th. So don't forget to celebrate it with your dearest friends. Make the day absolutely special for your friend and keep the positive feeling of friendship alive. Present your friends with wonderful gifts and express your love towards them. If you don't have a friend, make a new one. There is no better day or anything nobler than making a new friend on Friendship Day.

So this year on the 5th of August make sure that you show appreciation and love that you have always had for your friend but never had the time to lavish it. Friendship day is all about showing how much you care. Even if you don't gift your friend anything, it doesn't matter as long as you spend time with each other and leave happy. This is the time to make your friends realize how much they mean to you and how life would have been dull without them around. So go ahead and enjoy this day to the fullest!

Tips For Friendship Day Celebrations
  • As friendship day is the only day on which you can reciprocate the love of your dear friend, take out time for a hang-out together.
  • If you are creative enough express your feeling of thankfulness and love in a poem and gift it to your best friend.
  • Make sure you do not forget to at least wish 'Happy friendship day' to anyone of your friends.
  • If your college is over and you are busy with your office, make the first Sunday of August every year, a day of rejuvenation and enjoyment with your friends.
  • If some of your dear friend is living far away, felicitate his friendship by sending a token of love (any gift) along with a sweet note.
  • Friendship day can also be the best day to sort out your differences with some dear friend.

Friendship Day Party Theme

All set to throw a party for your friends? If yes, then by this time, you would have decided the venue, date and time for your party. Apart from the three important things, you need to consider whether you want to throw 'yet-another-party' or do something different and special, to amuse your friends. If you want to make the occasion memorable for everyone, then choose a particular theme for the party. A number of themes have been chosen and proven a hit for Friendship Day parties. To get ideas about the most popular themes for Friendship Day party, then go through the following lines.

Friendship Day Party Theme Ideas

Cowboy Theme
Send 'wanted' poster as invitation to your friends, if you are inviting them to a cowboy theme party. Include all the details, with the photograph of the host (you!), roll the poster and tie it with a bandana. Write the invitation in black letters and make use of parchment paper for the purpose. Place a basket full of bandanas and cowboy hats near the front door. Ask your guests to clad themselves in typical cowboy and cowgirl attire. As party favors, you may give them cowboy hats. 

Celebrities Theme
To throw an entirely different Friendship Day party, choose celebrities theme. Make a glittery invitation for the party. Ask your guests to dress up like the celebrity of their choice. By doing this, you would see a lot of variety in the party. To make the occasion even more interesting, arrange a competition wherein they should imitate the celebrity whom they have chosen for their get up for the party. This way, you will get to know the popular choices of your friends.

Halloween Theme
Halloween theme is a hit amongst people of all ages. Therefore, you can choose the popular theme for your Friendship Day party as well. Send out invitations suitable for the theme. Decorate your party venue just like a haunted house. Make use of artificial spider webs, tombstones and fake body parts. Dim the lights and make the place horrible. Ask your friends to come in Halloween costumes. You may also rate them according to their dress, during the party. Present pumpkin lights as the Friendship Day party favors to your guests. 

Graffiti Party Theme
It is definite that you will have an exciting Friendship Day party, if you have set the popular graffiti theme for it. Graffiti party theme is best suitable for adults. Send invitations made of white paper, written with colorful markers. Ask your friends to come in white t-shirt and denim jeans. As the party proceeds, switch off all the lights and provide them glow-in-the-dark markers, so that they could write any slogan, message or draw picture in each other's t-shirts. Make use of glittery decorations for the venue, so that they shine when the lights are turned off.

Making New Friends


Solitude is enjoyed by any individual. Spending time with oneself and indulging in some fruitful introspection is something that many people crave for, but unfortunately do not find time for the same. However, when this solitude becomes loneliness, it can get problematic. Finding new friends is not at all difficult, provided you keep an open mind and be confident of yourself. Always remember that tomorrow's friends are in fact today's strangers. So, if you are looking for tips for making new friends, read the article. We bring you some ideas and suggestions for how to make new friends.

Tips For Making New Friends
  • To make new friends, the first thing you need to do is, meet up with new people. This should be quite simple, as your neighborhood should have a club, school or any other small organization. Go there and talk to people. You will be surprised to see the response you get. Don't be too haughty or condescending. It is far more important to be nice than be interesting. Therefore, once you get into a social circle or group, making friends is not tough at all.
  • Look approachable. You need not dress up in dandy clothes or wear loud make up to attract people. More than artificial make up, simplicity attracts people. Smile often, make eye contact, don't look too tensed and listen to what others have to say.
  • Accept people the way they are. Unnecessary fault finding, critically analyzing every individual will not work, if you want to make new friends. No one is perfect; you are not either. Everyone has faults and the way to make friends is by looking at the positive aspects of the individual. In case you don't like someone's behavior, it is better to avoid than create a rivalry.
  • Try to keep your communication channels open. Don't sit back, relax and expect lasting friendships to occur. It requires communication from both sides. Therefore, call up people you have just met, email old friends who have moved away, drop in occasional sms just to say 'hi'. You will be pleasantly surprised at the responses that you get.
  • Show people you are reliable and can be trusted. In a new group, ask if you could something to drink or invite someone over. Exchange phone numbers and don't forget to call up. Remember, it is essential to take the first step to begin the journey of an ever lasting friendship. When someone entrusts you with a work, give it your best shot.
  • Last but not the least - don't forget old friends. If they have moved away or if you have moved away, be in touch with occasional phone calls and emails. Don't leave old friends for the sake of new ones.

Friendship Day Jokes

International Friendship Day is celebrated every year on the first Sunday of August, with a lot of fun and fervor. The day commemorates the divine bond shared by friends. Exchange of gifts, flowers and greeting cards are customary on the occasion. People usually arrange get together or party with their friends, whom they might have lost contact, over the years. While partying or spending time in get-together, they would engage themselves in a number of activities that add to the fun quotient of the celebrations. If you are also planning to have a rocking Friendship Day, then do something different this time in order to entertain your pals, say, crack some jokes. The jokes given in the article are sure to bring a broad smile in your friends' face.

Jokes On Friendship

Camping
Jimmy and Watson are camping in the desert; they set up their tent and fall asleep. 
Some hours later, Jimmy wakes his friend. "Watson, look up at the sky and tell me what you see." 
Watson replies, "I see millions of stars." 
"What does that tell you?" asks Jimmy. 
Watson ponders for a minute. "Astronomically speaking, it tells me that there are millions of galaxies and potentially billions of planets. Astrologically, it tells me that Saturn is in Leo. Time wise, it appears to be approximately a quarter past three. Theologically, it's evident the Lord is all powerful and we are small and insignificant. Meteorologically, it seems we will have a beautiful day tomorrow. What does it tell you,?" 
Jimmy is silent for a moment, and then speaks. "Watson, you idiot, someone has stolen our tent."

Noble Prize
Herolal is driving down the Delhi-Amritsar highway, when he spots Bhola standing in the middle of a huge field of grass. He pulls the car over to the side of the road and notices that Bhola is just standing there, doing nothing, looking at nothing.
Herolal gets out of the car, walks all the way out to Bhola and asks him, "Excuse me, what are you doing?" 
Bhola replies, "I'm trying to win a Nobel Prize."
"How?" asks Herolal, puzzled.
"Well I heard they give the Noble Prize to people who are out standing in their field."

The Chase
Two friends were walking through the woods when they thought they heard something. They turned around and saw a big black bear coming towards them. Both men started to run when one of them stopped to change into tennis shoes. The second man said 'You don't have time to change shoes. You can't outrun that bear!' 
The first man said, 'I know I can't outrun the bear. I only have to outrun you!

Let's Play Schools
Two friends, Jenny and Jinny were thinking what to play during the afternoon. For a long time, they could not decide upon any game. Suddenly, Jenny had an idea. She turned to Jinny and said excitedly. "Let's play schools".
"Okay!" said Jinny. "But I'm going to be absent."

Hanging Out with Friends


When it comes to hanging out with friends, one can be sure that it is going to be absolutely amusing and unlimited fun. The talks seem to go on forever and any silly topic can become a point of lengthy discussions. Be it the latest trend in jewelry, the latest gadgets, old classic movies, the cute neighbor next door, work related pressures, there is no end to the list. In this stressful age, getting together with friends has become a luxury than a daily routine. Consider yourself lucky if you get to hang around with friends often because many people simply remember those good old days of carefree life with friends.

One of the best places to hang out with friends is of course your own house! The comfort that your room offers cannot be offered by any mall or a pub. You can be yourself, kick up your heels, not worry about your looks and talk loudly about anything in the world. You need not worry about what to eat since junk food is just a phone call away! Order loads of pizzas, cola and French fries without worrying about condescending stares. You can eat as much as you want and however you want! The bottom line is to have fun without any worries.

Another fun place to hang around with friends is the lounge. Comfortable seating and soothing ambience along with chilled drinks is the perfect setting for spending time with friends. If lounging is not your cup of tea, try hitting the bowling alley. A round of bowling games with friends is the perfect way to chill out. In case you are not into bowling, you can always go for a movie. These days you find coffee bars and small fast food joints near movie theaters where you can spend time after watching a movie. Whatever you do, remember to have loads of fun and enjoy. You may not get the opportunity to do so after some years.

Tips For Hanging Out with Friends
  • Plan a hangout when the entire group of yours is free. It is great to roam around with a bunch of friends than just two of you!
  • Do plan the hangout zone in advance so that you do not waste time in deciding over where to head towards.
  • Share the entire budget in equals. Do not overburden on a single person until and unless it is some special treat.
  • Do not be late if you do not want to be the plan spoiler. Be on time.
  • If you are planning for a hangout at some friend's place, do not take tension while making mess but make sure you clean it up before you leave.

Friends' Secrets


It is rightly said that one can share any secret with a true friend. He may know your deepest fears and weaknesses and yet will never take advantage of you. However, keeping a friend's secrets to you and not telling the world about is what makes the bond grow strong and last forever. You need to develop a trust and mutual understanding before you start sharing secrets with each other. With friends, secret talks never seem to end and it can get really amusing to know what has been going on in your friend's mind.

There is a phase in life especially from the teenage when one starts having a personal periphery in life and parents are excluded from it. It is because there are certain things that they can't understand and there are certain issues which we can't discuss with them. It is then when the friends become the best secret sharers. They are they one where one confides one's feeling and best kept secrets. It is done with a trust that the friend who is confided into would never a breach your trust.

It is a general notion that only girls share secrets. But boys have their own secrets that they discuss with only closest of pals. The secret talks can range from crushes, relationships, talks regarding fights with parents, secret missions, hideouts and anything that is not supposed to be known to others! If you think secrets are limited to only teenagers, get your facts right! Secrets can be shared at any age and there is absolutely no such hard and fast rule that secrets are shared only among youngsters.

Sharing secrets with a friend is not just fun, but it also helps to develop a lasting trust on one another. Sometimes, sharing secrets will tell you more about the person. You will come to know whether your friend is reliable and trustworthy and whether it is worth sharing your secrets with them. You can call it a test of friendship and if a person passes it, they are definitely not worth being made a trustworthy friend.

Tips Of Sharing Secrets
  • Do not blabber all your secrets at a go; first of all test your friend on the friendship litmus.
  • Do not ever reveal secrets which may be hurting for your friend, this at times sours a relationship.
  • If your friend shares a secret with you, do not even other get a hint of it, forget about blabbering it out.
  • Learn to respect privacy, even if you have known some secret of your friend through other sources, do not inquire him/her.
  • Never try to force your friends to tell you something. If they will feel like, they will certainly share their feelings with you.
  • Even if at some point of time your friendship sours, learn to respect secrets that your friend once shared with you. This shows how trustworthy you are as a person.

Friendship Symbols

Friendship is one of the most divine relationships on earth. It carries the essence of all other relations. A friend can be caring like a mother, strict like a father, possessive like a brother, affectionate like a sister and shower loads of love like a lover. In fact, life is incomplete without friends. The multi-faceted relationship teaches us a number of lessons of life. Friends are influential, at the same time, true companions who stand by us even when everyone else refuses to do so. There are no expectations in friendship and neither are there any limits. Friendship is no less than a spiritual bond between two individuals. Friendship day is especially dedicated to commemorate the bond of true friends. There are certain symbols associated with the celebration of the day. Check out the article to know all about friendship symbols.

Symbols Of Friendship

Chinese Friendship Symbol
Ancient Chinese symbols are very mysterious in nature. Most of these symbols are derived from ancient Chinese calligraphy. These days, people prefer having these symbols as a part of body art, in the form of tattoos. These symbols are said to enhance positive energy in your friendship thus making it even more strong and lasting. 

Friendship Bracelets
Friendship bracelets are very common symbols of friendship. You can find many such bracelets in the markets these days. Since there is a huge variety to choose from, you can easily afford to be choosy about your favorite colors, designs, patterns, etc. The friendship band is supposed to be worn on your wrist until it falls off naturally. 

Friendship Stones
Powerful friendship stones symbolize happiness and joy. They usher in good luck and strength in friendship. Some of the popular stones are Lapis Lazuli, Rhodonite, Turquoise Egg, etc. One can get these stones from any certified jeweler. While purchasing a friendship stone for your pal, ensure that you keep in mind his/her choices.

Jade Plant
The Jade plant is also known as the "Friendship Tree". Some people mistake it to be the money plant. This plant is succulent and has pink and white flowers. The plant has the capacity to spread joy and positive energy and add happiness in this beautiful relation. The green juicy leaves signify joy and energy between two friends. It is an ideal gift to be given to a friend. 

Promise Ring
Exchanging promise rings on Friendship Day signifies a very strong bond and means the friends are committed to each other in friendship. This is to say that whatever happens, they shall never leave each others' side. One can easily get these rings from the market these days. They are available in a huge variety of colors and designs.

Friendship Quotes


Famous people have spoken very highly of this relation called friendship. Over the ages, their words have been converted into meaningful and famous friendship messages. There are many such inspirational and amusing sayings on friendship. These friendship quotations try their best to put the magical feeling of friendship in simple words. These quotations can go a long way in making your friend feel special and cared for. Check out our selection of friendship quotes and pick the one that describes your friendship in the simplest of words.
  • A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked. - Bernard Meltzer.
  • A friend is one who knows you, but loves you anyway. - Fr. Jerome Cummings
  • Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure. - Jewish Saying
  • The only way to have a friend is to be one. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend. - Abraham Lincoln
  • Hold a true friend with both your hands. - Nigerian Proverb
  • A faithful friend is the medicine of life. - Apocrypha
  • Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love. - Charles Peguy
  • There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom. - William Penn
  • No man is useless while he has a friend. - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • A single rose can be my garden; a single friend, my world. - Leo Buscaglia
  • It is the ones you can call up at 4:00 a.m. that really matter. - Marlene Dietrich
  • The language of friendship is not words but meanings. - Henry David Thoreau
  • True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity, before it is entitled to the appellation. - George Washington
  • Good friends are good for your health. - Irwin Sarason
  • Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen. - Samuel Paterson
  • Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends. -- Cindy Lew
  • Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
    Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
    Just walk beside me and be my friend. -- Albert Camus
  • Friendship needs no words... - Dag Hammarskjold.
  • Friends are the sunshine of life. -- John Hay (1871)
  • The best mirror is an old friend. --George Herbert
  • One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives. - Euripides.
  • A simple friend thinks the friendship over when you have an argument. A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight. - Unknown

Friendship

"What is a friend? A single soul, dwelling in two bodies" - Aristotle

True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal. 

Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since time immemorial. There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure. 

Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as 'a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function'. This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others. 

Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong. Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child. Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis.

Friendship Day Recipes


Friendship Day is an occasion for celebrating ‘friendship and companionship’, the most cherished relation of all the relations on this earth. It is about relishing the joy of having a friend who can stand along with you in all pain and pleasures. Generally, people celebrate friendship day by going out together and relishing on some scrumptious recipes together. However, if you want to make your friends feel special, you can also cook for them. Incase, you find cooking alone very boring, you can call your friends at your place and enjoy cooking together. You can thus enjoy cooking and feasting together. Here are few wonderful friendship day recipes, which you will certainly enjoy with your friends.

Recipes For Friendship Day

Mocha Cooler (Coffee and Ice Cream) 

Ingredients (Serves 4)
  • 250 ml Milk
  • 100 ml Cream
  • 25 ml Strong Black Coffee
  • 4 scoops Chocolate Ice-Cream
  • 4 tbsp Drinking Chocolate
Method
  • Properly dissolve the chocolate in strong black hot coffee.
  • Pour in milk.
  • Let it cool down a little.
  • Whisk in cream.
  • Refrigerate for few minutes.
  • Pour ice cream over it.
  • Serve immediately.
Fish Pakoras

Ingredients
  • 500 gm Fish-filleted
  • 200 gm Gram Flour
  • 5 gm Red Chilli Powder
  • 5 gm Turmeric
  • 3 gm Crushed Cumin
  • 2 gm Soda Bi-Carb
  • Chaat masala
  • Oil for deep frying
  • Salt (as per taste)
  • Water
Method
  • Mix flour, red chilli powder, cumin, turmeric, salt and soda bi-carb in water to prepare the batter for fish pakoda.
  • Cut the fishes in desired shapes
  • Coat each piece with the batter and deep fry.
  • Sprinkle with chaat masala and serve with ketchup or chutney.
  • You can also serve the Mocha Cooler along with it as a perfect snack and drink combination.

Friendship Day in India

Like all over the world, Friendship Day in India is also celebrated with much fanfare and enthusiasm. Though the celebration of Friendship's Day in India is mainly limited to the urban sections of the society, there is extreme enthusiasm about the arrival of this day in the country. Youngsters in India spend the day with their closest friends and have loads of fun together. They exchange cards and cute gifts and recollect the days spent together. Though the trend of Friendship Day celebration is not very old, the celebration has become quite popular in last decade.

The friendship day in India is not very different from other parts of the world. It is very much the reminiscence of the most cherished relation in the world. For Youngsters, it is all about partying and having fun and for adults, it has become an occasion for get together and fun. Different people celebrate it in different manner. Some friends meet up on this particular day at a commonplace. Yet some others plan a surprise visit just to see their friend gasp in pleasant shock! Spending the day with your closest pals is something that one doesn't get to do all of the time. Even if it means sitting together and talking over a cup of coffee, the time spent together is precious and unforgettable. Long distance friends call up each other on this day and wish each other with warm feelings. 

Most of the youngsters in India plan a movie or lunch with friends. A large group of friends may also go on a drive to nearby tourist places or make a plan for camping. Adventure lovers plan a day that is filled with action to set their pulses racing. Such people also go for trekking with their friends if they have a nice group. If they are not a lot of adventure options in the city near by, friends also organize a get-together at water parks and adventure clubs in the city. 

Some friends go to the malls to do shopping. On Friendship's Day most stores offer discounted prices for customers and it is the perfect day to pick up some clothes and shop for friends also. Entire market is flooded with friendship day gifts and cards. Friendship bands, flowers, cookies and chocolates are also the most sought for as well as available items in the market on this occasion. Some friends also plan a lunch and shopping spree together on this day. 

Parties are the most popular way to celebrate the day. Parties exclusively meant for this day are organized by many restaurants and discothèques attract youngsters. Such parties are very enjoyable, more so if you are with a large group of friends. You get food at a discounted rate and the ambience is just perfect to enjoy with friends. Some friends just decide to meet up at someone's home and catch up on lost time. The bottom line is to have fun with your pals, wherever it may be.

Friendship Day History

Friendship is one relation that has survived on earth since its existence. Even when there was no understanding of a lawful marital relationship, the feeling of companionship always existed. This feeling of companionship is actually the feeling of friendship. It is not merely a relationship rather a unique blend of affection, trustworthiness, care, respect, and loads of fun. In present time, when people do not get enough time from work, the importance of friendship is being understood. This is the reason why people decided a special day to reciprocate this special relationship on a special day in a special way. To know more about Friendship's Day history, read on this article.

The tradition of celebrating Friendship Day has been prevalent since a very long time. However, you may not find much written literature about the history and origin of Friendship Day as for a long time no formal date was assigned top this occasion. Humans have been friends ever since civilization came into existence. As a social animal, a human being needs companionship and friendship. Thus one can say that friendship has existed even in pre-historic times. So, the celebration of an occasion specially meant for friendship is really special. 

In the year 1935 the United States Congress announced the first Sunday of August as the National Friendship Day. From then on it has caught up with the rest of the world and today everyone celebrates Friendship's Day with much enthusiasm and joy. A special day dedicated just for friends is something that everyone looks forward to. The beautiful idea of honoring one of the most pious relations of all, i.e. Friendship, is appreciated by people all over the world. It has assumed the proportion of being celebrated as a festival. Friends all over the world pay tribute to their chums by giving those gifts and other tributes. The best way to celebrate this beautiful day is by spending the entire day with your special pals.

Though till last few decades, this celebration was popular with people of western countries. It is only with the phase of globalization that people in the other parts of the world came to know about this wonderful celebration. This occasion has been commercially much promoted and now, even the smallest suburban area of a third world country is aware of this occasion. The celebrations are also more or less the same everywhere. People go out with friends and celebrate this occasion by having a gala time together. Exchange of gifts, flowers and cards are popular trends of this occasion. It is estimated that this is one of the most commercially benefiting occasions for the gift and card galleries as millions of gifts, cards and chocolates are bought on this occasion throughout the world. Once started as a small event, this occasion has become as grand as a festival.

Friendship Day Crafts

The best gift that can be given to a friend is a handmade craft item because it gives a feeling of special care and unparallel love. The best occasion to make and gift a handmade craft to a friend is obviously 'Friendship Day'. Make something memorable for your friends so that it leaves a lasting impact on them. The gift that is made personally is cherished more than any other expensive gift bought from the store. Though the handmade cards take some time and effort, your friendship deserves it. Over here, you will find many craft ideas for Friendship Day. So go through these easy crafts for Friendship's Day given below and decide what you are going to make for your friend.

Friendship Band
One of the most popular gift and craft of friendship is a friendship band. Use wool in different colors to make one for your friend. Take either three or six different colored threads of wool and plait it like you plait your hair. Make a loop at one end and leave the other end free after tying a knot so that it does not open. You can decorate it further with some sparkle or small stars. You can also make the same thing with ribbons in case you don't have wool. You can also add beads of your name and your friends name to personalize the band.

Friendship Basket
You need an empty basket for this along with other materials like ribbons, glitter, small stars and cut outs that can be stuck, etc. Begin by cleaning the basket and paint it if it is damaged here and there. Let the paint dry and then begin by sticking the ribbon along the sides on the basket. Make small bows and stick them at strategic places on the basket. Sprinkle generous doses of sparkle / glitter and stick small funny cut outs and stars sporadically around the basket. Make a small banner and stick it on the basket so that it looks like an arch. Write out something like "For my Best Friend!" on the banner. Fill the basket with goodies like candies and chocolates. Tie a bunch of balloons at one end of the basket and see the smile on your friend's face when you gift the basket! 

Friendship Bookmark
Take some cardboard and cut it in the form of long rectangle. You can use variations like keeping one end of the bookmark arched. Stick a ribbon at one end of the bookmark and draw out some cute illustrations on the corners. Write out a funky quote on the bookmark and decorate with some colors and glitter. You can also write a nice friendship quote if you want to give it an emotional touch. Your Friendship bookmark is ready.

Friendship Day Activities

Friendship's Day is the ideal occasion to indulge in fun activities after all this is the best day to let yourself loose and enjoy being your real self. Some people plan something special for the day while others believe in having spontaneous fun. Over here you will find many ideas for a Friendship Day activity. Whatever activity you do, the bottom-line is to have loads of fun with your friends. Since this special day comes only once a year, spend unlimited time with your friends and let them know how special they are. Apart from presenting them with gifts, also make sure that you make it a day full of fun and enjoyment. Go through Friendship's Day activity given below to have an idea of what all can you possibly do on this occasion.

Organize A Party 
Organize a party for your friends on the occasion of Friendship's Day. No need to splurge too much on the decorations and gifts. Make it simple and fun. Order junk food and make the ambience nice and calm. Have a good collection of music and you are set to party. You can also organize a theme party wherein everyone has to dress up like a particular character according to the theme. 

Outing With Friends 
Watch a nice movie together. You can head to the nearest theater and watch it there. While outside, you can also catch up on some shopping and have lunch together. If you are no more a college student now, remember the good old days and laugh off the silly misunderstandings that you developed in some phase of your friendship. Also, try to go to your favorite hangout zone of college days and cherish those carefree moments.

Movie Marathon At Home 
If you don't want to go outside, you can hire some movies and DVD's and watch it with friends at the comfort of your home. Make it like a mini get together with food, drinks and popcorns and go for three movies, one after another. You can also plan a sleepover at your home. Call your friends, rent some horror movies, have loads of popcorn and you are all set to enjoy with your friends. Just have fun, tease each other by wearing horror masks!

Night Out At Your Place 
If you have a backyard, put up a tent for dinner and organize a party for your friend under open sky. Call your friends to have dinner and stay at your place. Play music at night and dance until dawn. If you have option, you can arrange a barbeque too. If you are tired, lie down under the night sky watching the billions of twinkling stars. Your friends will always remember this wonderful night out.

Friendship Betrayal

True friends are hard to find, most of the time, people land up with wrong people, who are difficult to adjust with. With the increasing selfishness and cut throat competition between peers, it has become more difficult to find a person, who can be blindly trusted and looked upon in need. Also, with increasing interest of people in gossip and cheap plots, betrayal of friendship has become very common. One more reason because of which friendship these days do not bloom is self- engrossed nature of most of the people. Even worse are those cases, where betrayal of friendship is done for materialistic pleasures. Coping up with a broken friendship is quite hard, more so if you have no fault of yours. But, life goes on and you make new friends. You push away your hurtful past and learn a valuable lesson from it.

Accept Reality 
When friends let you down and are not there for you when you need them the most, its very heart wrenching. Sometimes the reason why friends betray you is just not known, which leaves you with a feeling of guilt that may be something went wrong from your side. In case of betrayal, being at the receiving end leaves you hurt, confused and angry. You demand answers as to why have you been betrayed for absolutely no fault of yours. The talks end abruptly, phone calls are not returned, letters remain unanswered and there is no contact whatsoever. Hate it as much as you want, you will have to come to terms with reality and accept that things were not meant to be. 

Do Not Drag Issues 
Though it may seem like the end of the world, there are ways to cope up with it. If the friendship has been ended by you, then there has to be reason concrete enough to justify the action you have taken. There is no point in dragging along a friendship when you know you are not comfortable with it. End it politely and quickly and most importantly, don't regret your action. If you start feeling sorry, you are putting yourself in trouble. There is a reason for every action you take and you must have thought a lot about it before taking a decision. Learn to trust your gut feelings and have confidence in yourself. Make sure you don't end the friendship (however short it may be) with bitter feelings and make it a bitter experience for yourself as well. 

Cry Your Heart Out 
If you have been at the receiving end and feel that you have been betrayed for no fault of yours, it can be very hurtful. Don't be embarrassed to cry and scream. You have been hurt and you have the right to vent out your frustration and once you take out all the frustrations, you will feel a lot better after Seek out other friends, siblings or your parents and talk to them. However, also learn to cope on your own, take out time and explore world again.

Take Lessons 
Once you overcome the depression phase, you will be surprised to see that it was not very difficult. All that you needed was to make yourself understand that this friend was not meant for you. Also, remember these betrayals are experiences that taught you valuable lessons in life especially about your compatibility and your priorities in life. Don't be exaggerate the issue on a vocal level but analyze it within your heart. However, make sure you do not become xenophobic after all betrayals should not stop you from trusting people and making new friends.

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